Dropping off your child at preschool or departing for work is difficult for children and parents alike. Who wouldn’t want to play hookie from work, scoop us your little nugget from school and have a picnic at the park? Your child feels the same way. A parent leaving them at school can feel a bit like abandonment. Why are you leaving me? Are you ever coming back? What could be more important than my comfort? Unfortunately, separation is a fact of life for most children and their families. You’ll be called upon to part from your child time and time again. But it doesn’t have to be painful. Try out some of these strategies for taking the sting out of leaving your child while you attend to your other responsibilities.
A few thoughts on separation:
What can I do to help my child cope with separation?
Little people need a helping hand when it comes to managing separation. You are their trusted adult and it’s normal for them to want you around! To help your child cope with separation, you might try:
Remember, building a loving attachment lays the foundation for growing independence. The more you love on your child, the more secure your child will become! Soon she’ll be waving you goodbye and jetting off to play. But be sure to squeeze in that hug!